Do you remember the day that you found out you were pregnant or about to adopt your second child?
Did you ever feel ....How could you ever love any little person as you have loved already? Then the moment you hold that sweet second baby the love just grows so much. There are no words to describe the deep love as a mother. The "mother bear" mode comes out of you if think of one of your children are getting hurt or in any kind of dilemma. The love is fierce and bold. It seems that deep love just deepens as they grow into adults.
So why can't a child love more than one mom? Why is it a common question if I feel jealous when we see our birth family? "First moms" or "Second moms" domestic adoption doesn't have to be hard. It's just more people to love the growing child!
Interesting perspective! I'm not an adoptive mom but I think this is a good way to look at it. A child can never have too much love!
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